"Dutch" Lesbian Cycles to Sacramento for the Right to Return Home

September 23, 2005, Sacramento, California

Exiled US citizen Martha McDevitt-Pugh, who rode her bike to get Schwarzenegger’s support for the gay marriage bill, arrived in Sacramento the day before the bill landed on the Governor’s desk. “We spoke with many people coming and going from the governor's office, “ she said. “One woman said that he is very aware of how important this is to gay and lesbian families but that he has made his position clear and it is a political one. We think he may veto the bill immediately when it reaches his desk, but he has until October 9 to sign or veto it.”  She did not speak with the governor.

In Washington Democratic National Committee Chairman Howard Dean accused Schwarzenegger of playing politics with gay people's lives.

"Apparently, Governor Schwarzenegger has ripped a page from President Bush's re-election playbook," Dean said in a statement. "Rule number one in the 'Bush-Rove Guide to Running on a Record of Failure' is to demonize groups of people and use them to divide the electorate by rallying the extremists in your base. It's the only way to explain Governor Schwarzenegger's promise to veto the California marriage equality bill after pledging just last year to support equal rights and responsibilities for California's LGBT families if approved by the courts or the legislature."

Bill could help US gays and lesbians come out of exile

"If I could take a billboard on a bicycle ride, this is what mine would say", love exile Martha McDevitt-Pugh quips: "I had to move to Holland to marry my wife.  I wish I could have gotten married at home." McDevitt-Pugh rode from the Oakland, where she lived before moving to the Netherlands, to the governor’s office in Sacramento this Wednesday and Thursday.

McDevitt-Pugh lives as a "love exile" in the Netherlands. She decided only days before the ride that she had to be in California to do her part. "I couldn’t sit at home and wait for the outcome. It’s not normal thing for me to drop everything to fly halfway across the world, but I have to do what I can". She met with members of organisations for bi-national and same sex couples, Immigration Equality San Francisco and Love Sees No Borders, as well as with Equality California, before deciding to ride her bike to make her voice heard. Others will join her on the ride. "Living in Amsterdam I’ve learned that riding a bike is the way to get most places. I just hope it gets us closer to equality in the eyes of the law."

McDevitt-Pugh knows the passing of the bill will not make it possible for her to sponsor her Dutch wife to live in the USA. Nor will it make a difference to the hundreds of same-sex bi-national couples in the US who are presently filing for emigration to Canada. Or to the many bi-national gay and lesbian couples being forcibly separated after sometimes more than 20 years under the new immigration stringency of the Patriot Act. The large community of Americans who are in limbo, not able to live in the country of their life partner and not able to bring their partner to live with them in the United States, will also not be affected by the passage of this law. “But it will bring us one step closer to immigration equality, and it will give us hope,” says McDevitt-Pugh. “Our message to the governor is simple: don’t veto my family”.

McDevitt-Pugh established Love Exiles www.loveexiles.org when she realized how wrong it was that the United States had forced her to leave the United States to be with her life partner. Love Exiles is for all bi-national couples and also has chapters in Germany, the UK and Canada. "People contact us from many countries – Pakistan, Indonesia, the Philippines, as well as the US, Switzerland, Italy – because they lack the right to live in their own country with their partner and children." Only 16 countries in the world allow their own citizens to sponsor a same-sex partner or spouse as legal immigrants. In the other 176 countries in the world, gay and lesbian citizens have no right to live legally together with their foreign partners and are for all intents and purposes "legal strangers."

Contact:
exiles@xs4all.nl
www.loveexiles.org

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